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Naming
Ceremonies are increasingly popular. Also referred to as
Name giving's, they are a secular ceremony, and the occasion
at which the parents or caregivers choose to formally introduce
their child to their family and circle of friends, and bestow
the chosen names upon the child.
Many parents choose not to baptise their children, because
they have no active involvement with a Church, or have non-religious
beliefs. Other parents are practicing Christians, but feel
that children should make their own decision about embracing
the family religious faith when old enough to understand
the commitment. To not have a ceremony however is to ignore
what is a very significant event in family life - the arrival
of a new family member. They elect to have a Naming Ceremony
instead, sharing the occasion with family and friends at
what is usually an informal though still very important
and usually delightful occasion.
Some children are named shortly after birth, but the first
birthday is a popular time for others. Sometimes, other
children in the family will be named at the same time, if
they were not given such a ceremony when younger. The age
of the child or person being named is not critical, and
in fact an adult can also be named.
This is where a Civil Celebrant may assist the parents by
performing a non religious ceremony to formally introduce
and name their child amongst their family and friends.
The
appointment of people who will fill a special role in the
life of the child is a matter of choice for the parents.
It is optional, not a requirement. Those people may be termed
Godparents, Guardians, or Mentors. It is important to note
that Guardians only assume the legal role if appointed under
the terms of a will.
Although
a Name giving Ceremony is secular, the term Godparent is
still frequently used. The parents request that this person
take a special interest in the life of their child, and
ask that he or she will be there in times of need. During
the ceremony, the Godparent may be asked to read a blessing,
or assist in lighting a candle, or perhaps to hold the child
whilst the parents hold their candles.
There
is no set number of godparents, guardians or mentors, and
they may be either family members, or friends. In selecting
people to share in your child's life, you should consider
the practicality of their future involvement.
Choosing
the title of the person to look after a child is a personal
choice and can be made from the above three choices.
Each
ceremony is individually crafted after consultation with
the family. Generally it will start with an introduction,
and a brief explanation on the reasons that a naming ceremony
has been chosen. Examples of ceremonies will be available
to the parents to help them clarify their ideas and requirements.
The
parents may choose to acknowledge the role of others in
the life of their child - grandparents, older siblings,
other relatives, or friends. Perhaps one of those people
will be asked to present a reading to the guests. A naming
ceremony is very much a time at which the involvement of
different people in the life of the child is recognised.
If
Godparents, Guardians or Mentors are to be appointed this
is formally done within the ceremony, and those people receive
a certificate of appointment.
Each
child or person named receives a Certificate of Name giving
When
the names are officially bestowed upon the child, there
may be an explanation given on the reasons for selecting
the chosen names, or a particular meaning attributed to
the names. The naming may be accompanied by different rituals,
such as the lighting of candles, anointing with oils, or
sprinkling with water or rose petals. Another reading may
follow the naming, and at completion of the ceremony, the
celebrant, the parents, and godparents (or guardians or
mentors) will sign the naming certificate. Ceremonies may
also involve activities such as planting of trees, sealing
a time capsule, contributing to a memento box, or releasing
balloons.
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